Questions to deepen your relationship

In a relationship there is a lot to learn about one another. Whether you are just starting out dating or in a long term relationship, there is always more you can uncover. The sections below outline some questions, starting with basics to ask while dating and gradually increase in depth for those who have been together longer.

Questions to ask when dating

The following are a collection of questions to spark a conversation and get to know someone. When establishing a new relationship, we first explore interests and likes/dislikes before delving into significant past experiences and relational needs.

The following questions are meant to start developing a baseline relationship foundation by exploring each person’s views, values, and boundaries. While each person’s answers may not always align, it is important to share similar views.

Questions to ask in an established relationship

In a long term relationship it can feel like we have learned everything there is to know about our partner. The following are some questions to further deepen the relationship and provide some new insight.